Question 1 of 10
"There is a version of my life that the people I work with would not recognise."
Question 2 of 10
Someone you like, but do not know well, says they are ten minutes away and can they come up. You look around your home. What actually goes through your head?
Nothing. They can see all of it. If they have questions I will answer them honestly.
I move two or three things. Not hiding exactly, just choosing what gets explained today.
I do a full sweep. There is a version of this room for guests and I know how to build it.
I genuinely do not know what they would notice. Nobody has ever come up and asked.
Question 3 of 10
Which statement feels more true for you?
Statement A
"Keeping something private is protecting it. The moment I explain it, it stops being mine."
Statement B
"Keeping something private is carrying it. I would rather set it down and let people look."
Question 4 of 10
"I have changed a story about myself halfway through telling it, because I watched the other person's face."
Question 5 of 10
Monday morning. A colleague asks what you got up to at the weekend. The honest answer would take twenty minutes and change how they look at you. What comes out of your mouth?
The honest answer. They can do what they like with it. It has cost me before and I stayed.
A true sentence that is not the whole truth. I am not lying. I am just not narrating.
Something plausible and small. The real one belongs to a different life and it stays there.
Quiet, mostly. Not much happened. That part is not really a performance any more.
Question 6 of 10
Which statement feels more true for you?
Statement A
"The parts of me nobody sees are the parts I am least sure about."
Statement B
"The parts of me nobody sees are the parts I am proudest of."
Question 7 of 10
"If everyone knew everything about my life tomorrow, it would be a relief, not a disaster."
Question 8 of 10
Someone close to you finds an object in your home and holds it up. Not an accusation. Just a question on their face. What happens in your chest?
Calm. I have been waiting for someone to finally ask me about it and nobody ever has.
A drop. Not shame. The sense that a door I keep closed just opened without my permission.
Fast calculation. Which version of the story is true enough and small enough to hand over.
Relief, honestly. I would rather they found it than that I had to introduce the subject.
Question 9 of 10
"There are things about my life I have never said out loud, and not because I am ashamed of them."
Question 10 of 10
Last one. Which statement feels more true for you?
Statement A
"I want to be known completely, by one person, and left alone by everybody else."
Statement B
"I want to be known completely, by everyone, and stop managing which version they get."
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